Keep No Secrets
Secrets Separate and Destroy
There were certain things I didn’t want to tell my son about myself. Specifically, I didn’t want to tell him that I had experimented with drugs at his age. I felt I should wait until he was older (if ever). That being said, my son and I had a long heart-to-heart talk this past week; he and his friends have been experimenting and I was concerned for them all. I thought long and hard about “Keep no secrets; secrets separate and destroy” and I decided to tell him some truths.
The results:
- A new level of maturity in our conversations.
- An openness that wasn’t quite there before.
- A clearer understanding on my son’s part of why I fear for him and his friends at times.
My son also shared with me.
So – while keeping no secrets is hard, I found it very enlightening and freeing. And the best part of all? My relationship with my son has deepened and moved to a new level. (from a student in The 55 Concepts, a Guide to Conscious Living class).
Although this person shared this please remember, share that which is wise to share in the appropriate time and share with the understanding of the maturity level of the person with whom you are sharing. In personal/partner relationships it is wise to share from the beginning and not let secrets develop.
Life is a Journey that Never Ends
This journey of life does not end. Life does not end at earthly death. It is merely a transition to a different living experience. We are never finished experiencing, no matter what plane of existence we are on. Life/enlightenment is eternal experience.
If we are on a growth path we peel away the beliefs, feelings, karmas, etc. that prevent us from a joyous journey. These changes then allow us to consciously begin to govern our own direction, to a degree. For there is always some predestined direction and some unconscious patterning directed by your own spirit.
Learn to work the system (CREATE BY THE RULES) on whatever plane of existence you are on, this too is enlightenment. This leads to joyously experiencing every existence. Waiting for an end is disappointing, for there is no end. However we do reach non-duality and then the end doesn’t matter because you remember there is no end.
For those who do not like the rules, resisting the perceived unfairness only makes your journey more painful. On this plane of existence there are rules of operation, a chain of command if you will, that must be followed. These however are changing. Until then it is best for you to use the system that is in place till you can consciously create your own system that interfaces with the one already being used.
Journey with Joy as you evolve as a conscious creator!